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Heartache Out Loud is Available at Barnes and Noble and at Amazon!

Just by ticking a tiny box on Amazon Kindle Publishing allowed many different bookstores to stock my book. Ah, the marvels of modern-day self-publishing! Here's the Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/Heartache-Out-Loud-Emotional-Catharsis-ebook/dp/B0CKFLPLNC 



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